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We have one rule and one rule only: all black.

Dress up, down, slutty, classy, pervy, in clothing or a costume or something you bought at the pet store. The more imaginative, daring, outrageous, or outlandish you dress, the better — not only will it attract a bevy of horny and uninhibited party guests but you may also win a prize from our sexy sponsors. And hey, if you want to be the one boring, insecure, imaginationless shlub wearing a plain black t-shirt and jeans, go right ahead — it's your life to waste.

Common Questions About Our Dress Code...

Do many people at the party dress up?
Only the interesting, self-confident, sexually-satisfied ones, which is to say, most of them.

Will you really fine me $50 at the door if I don’t show up dressed all in black?
Yes.

I’m going to display for the world how clever I am by showing up dressed all in red. I bet I’ll be the first one who’s ever done that, right?
If it's worth an extra $50 to prove how "clever" you are, be our guest. Enjoy the scorn and derision; we'll certainly enjoy the extra cash. And it's been done…yawn.

Does everything I wear have to be completely black? Will I get fined if something I’m wearing has, for example, silver buttons?
Completely black is best, of course, but predominantly black is okay too. For example: A black harness with contrast stitching, a black vampire dress with dark purple buttons, and black platform boots with gold zippers would all be perfectly acceptable. A lavender pantsuit — for so many reasons — would not.

I want to wear something outrageous, but I’m shy.
Wear a black mask.

I’d love to come really decked out, but I’m cheap / unemployed.
You have three choices:
a) Spend the money and get what you really want, rent and food be damned;
b) Spend the money but get something you can wear again, either wholly or in part; or
c) Wear less. A jar of black poster paint will run you about $3.

I can’t think of anything to wear. Help!
Check out the column on the right for ideas on both inspiration and where to shop.

Inspiration & Shopping Suggestions…

Check out past costume prize winners in our Gallery.

Kambriel hand-sews extravagant ruffles and capes from her studio in Salem. Yes, that Salem.

If rubber’s more your thing, try Melissa Coffey; The Baroness and DeMask both have shops in Manhattan.

For tons of costume, make-up, and goth options visit 4th Ave, south of E12th St., for both Gothic Renaissance and the adjoining Halloween Adventure.

Also check your local fetish shops and thrift stores for more ideas.

And remember — if you're truly hopeless, you can always ask Ethel.